I tend to become super aware of all the attractive men around, (usually in the shows I watch... since I live vicariously through them and books) and it's just getting ridiculous. Current list of things I'm watching to some degree
Leverage
Attractive Men: 2
Once Upon A Time
Attractive Men: 5 (I may or may not have counted correctly, but I'm pretty sure it's 5)
Castle
Attractive Men: 3
The Lizzie Bennet Diaries
Attractive Men: 3
Beauty and the Beast
Attractive Men: 3 (and one is criminally, "offensively" ridiculously good looking. It's unfair.)
This is in conjunction with all the movies I've been watching or thinking about (Red Dawn, The Avengers, Pride and Prejudice...).
Basically I'm tired of waiting to meet someone, because I feel like the longer I wait, the higher my standards get, and it's one thing to want a Temple Worthy guy (not always synonymous with RM, to be noted.) But I'd also like him to be musically talented, strong enough to pick me up, romantically inclined, honorable, respectable, looks good in his clothes, nice hair (ok, I really like hair I can run my fingers through in most cases) enjoys camping, reading, chilling out, seeing concerts or performances, can dance well enough to make it fun, killer eyes, nice features and a voice to die for (this can mean many different things, all of which depend on my mood at the time). Someone who can fix things like my dad, and help with homework (or just give encouragement) and who can cook for/with me and make it fun. I should write down that list again. A friend of mine told me to write down all the qualities I wanted in a husband, reasonable or not, and keep it on me, to help remind me what I was looking for. She said with in a year of writing her list she found her husband, and he didn't meet every requirement, but that wasn't the point. It reminded her to not settle. I don't know what it would help me with, other than another reminder that my standards are ridiculous.
I know people will say "open up more" or "just wait, the right one will come forward" or something sympathetically placating, and I try to believe it, but really, it just sucks to not have a special someone, to talk to, or just to cuddle with when it's cold and watch a movie or something.
Anyway, enough whining. I'm off to go see "Pitch Perfect" with my awesome roommate.
P.S. Don't recommend dating sites, I've already tried them and I have no money.
Friday, November 23, 2012
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