Planning things...

I love getting together with people and having a good time. Planning things can be really fun for me, and I don't even worry if things don't go as planned, because I am all about having a good time. The catch is...I have a date tomorrow. Planning dates makes me worry because if I'm the one planning, I've done the asking and I want it to go well. But I worry that I'll do or say something really dumb.

In this instance I asked the guy out just before he left Monday Night Volleyball. I am terrible at volleyball, and because I play without my glasses I don't play well at all. Everything is out of focus so I pay attention less. He tried to help me play better, give me pointers and all that, even got to the point where when I messed up I'd look at him or my friend and we'd just make a face and shrug our shoulders. So some teasing, all fun and games. Then he heads out because he's got to get up early for work and I run over and ask if he's doing anything Thursday (tomorrow) and he wasn't so I asked if he'd want to see a free concert, and he seemed, I don't know, not "happy she asked me" but pleased with the idea. Then I was a space cadet and managed to give him the we'd meet up, my address and number, and figure out what we're doing for food. Notice I did not get his number. A mutual friend of ours tried to give it to me, but I think its weird when people have my number and they didn't get it from me.

So the POINT of this long tirade is I'm not sure what to make. My plan so far is sandwiches, bring root beer or cream soda, and maybe get some berries from the farmers market. Because I like them. I wont be dipping them in chocolate, because THAT IS WEIRD for a first date. I feel like it's lacking though, and I've seen guys eat, they can eat a lot, and he'll be coming from work. Suggestions! Please! I'd like to make a better impression than I feel I have at church and volleyball.